Singer Clay Aiken helped his best friend fulfill her dream
of having a baby and has become a father, something the friend says he is very
good at.
When reports surfaced in May that “American Idol” runner-up
Clay Aiken would help his best friend, record producer Jaymes Foster, become a
mother via in vitro fertilization and that the two would raise the child
together, it sounded like something right out of a movie…
Anyone remember Madonna’s 2000 comedy-drama “The Next Vest
Thing,” co-starring Rupert Everett and Benjamin Bratt? Sure, it was a
commercial flop and critics were anything but enthusiastic about it, but the
idea was nice.
A heterosexual woman and a homosexual man are best friends,
they become quite drunk one night, they console each other and soon find they
are expecting a child. It ends happily too.
Clay Aiken has long been rumored to be gay but over the
years, ever since finding fame as a contestant on the second season of hit
reality-competition show “American Idol,” he has also been consistent in avoiding
questions regarding his sexual orientation, sometimes being downright
straightforward in dodging them, like he did a couple of years ago, when he
told Diane Sawyer that it was “really rude” of her to ask about his sexuality.
People magazine received the much sought after answer this
week though, as the new issue features an exclusive interview with Clay Aiken
and friend and mother of his baby Jaymes Foster.
The cover leaked (specifically on the perezhilton.com
website), showing Aiken holding 7-week son Parker Foster Aiken in his arms,
with the caption reading, “Yes, I’m Gay.” The text underneath was an excerpt
from the interview, with Aiken saying, “I cannot raise a child to lie or to
hide things.” The public grew very interested of course.
Aiken, 29, and Foster, 50, welcomed their baby boy in early
August and the singer posted a message on his website at the time, explaining
excitedly how the little one had come into the world in a North Carolina hospital, at 8:08, 08/08/08.
“Wow,” the first-time wrote of the repeating 8, detailing that the “little man”
was healthy, happy and “as loud as his daddy.”
Aiken, Foster and the baby now live in the singer’s home in North Carolina and are
doing quite well, they told People.
Jaymes Foster, the sister of famous music producer David
Foster, extolled Aiken’s natural caregiving abilities, telling the magazine how
happy he is to change the baby’s diapers, to cater to his every need and to do
the one thing Foster is a bit shy of: clip little Parker’s hand nails.
As to the singer’s decision to share with the world the very
private fact that he is gay, Foster told People that she supports him
completely with his resolution. Adding that she and Aiken “love each other
dearly,” Foster said it is now their “job” to remain best friends throughout
their lives and to be good parents to Parker.
Parker is the middle name of Clay Aiken’s mother, Faye, now
proud grandmother. He is the first child for both Foster, who has been divorced
for several years, and for Aiken. The new parents met when Aiken competed on “American
Idol” and have worked on several of his albums.